We got the diagnosis. We got the recommendations. Then we got the waitlists: 14 months for OT, 18 months for speech, "call back in spring" for the developmental pediatrician follow-up. I know we are not alone in this. Half this community could write the same paragraph. What we've been doing in the gap: - Free / low-cost early intervention through the school district (in the U.S., this is sometimes Part C for under 3, or special-ed preschool from 3+). - Parent-coaching models — some clinics offe…