I want to start a thread of small, unglamorous wins — the stuff that doesn't make it into the parenting books but quietly changes a household. Mine: putting a hook with the same backpack, same shoes, and same coat in the same spot by the door, every day. We stopped having morning meltdowns about "where is my…" almost overnight. It sounds trivial but it gave my kid (and me) one less decision before 8am. Other small things that have helped us: - Visual schedules on the fridge — even simple ones w…