My partner and I love our daughter the same amount but we are on completely different pages about how to support her. I lean toward following her lead, accommodating sensory needs, going slow. My partner worries we're "not pushing enough" and that the world won't accommodate her later, so we have to. We've had the same argument, in different costumes, about a hundred different daily decisions. I know we're not the only household where this happens. A few things we've tried: - Picking one issue…